The Womanizer Was So Good I Passed Out the First Time I Tried It
Luckily, I have a few tips and tricks to help you narrow things down. “Lelo’s Nea 3 is the perfect vibrator for someone who wants discreet, powerful, external stimulation,” says sex therapist Leigh Noren. Indeed, it looks more like an objet d’art than a sex toy, and is small enough to fit in pretty much any bag or pocket, so it’s a great pick for those who need discretion. Its gently curved shape allows it to slot neatly between bodies during sex. While it’s designed mainly for clitoral use, you can also try this one on the nipples, labia, balls, taint, or frenulum.
The original rabbit hopped onto the scene in the mid-1990s, popularised by its appearance in the hit TV show Sex and the City, they’ve been top-sellers ever since. At $109, it’s oddly more expensive than the Vesper 2, but no one ever said luxury was cheap. It’s USB-C rechargeable (with a proprietary plug on one end), whisper-quiet, even on turbo mode, and comes in silver, rose gold, black, and 24-karat gold plating vibrator, with a matching adjustable 26-inch chain. At the time, the world had never seen anything like this vibrator necklace, and because of its originality, it garnered fans worldwide. Patented by Martin Engineering, Vibrolator® vibrators are the original ball vibrators and still provide a reliable and efficient solution to flow problems. “No matter what, for a number of toys, the best and easiest use involves at least a couple of drops of lubricant for comfort,” says Fulbright.
“Launching this new technology is our way of breaking the mold of what people should expect from pleasure products, especially vibrators,” said Michelle Shnaidman, CEO of Bellesa. Vibrators create much more intense stimulation than fingers, tongues, or penises can. If you’ve never had an orgasm before, you may find it easier to have your first one with a vibrator.
I consulted with experts in the field about the current product landscape and picked brands that have a reputation for creating high-quality products. If your idea of the best vibrator is a basic vibrator or an entry-level device, buy this. The PlusOne Vibrating Bullet is made of body-safe silicone, it’s rechargeable, waterproof and only costs $10 — which is far less expensive than many battery-operated plastic models you can find. It has 10 vibration settings and more than 1,000 five-star reviews, so it’s a safe bet. Wand vibrators have a handle with a rounded top that vibrates, and they’re available in many different sizes. Twice as nice vibrators are designed to be inserted into the body to stimulate the G-spot and have an appendage that also stimulates the clitoris at the same time.
You can get that fingering-while-licking oral sex vibe with a rabbit vibrator. It has two little “bunny ears” for clitoral stimulation that are attached to an insertable dildo-shaped shaft that vibrates inside of you so you can attempt a G-spot and clitoral orgasm. Everyone’s sensitivities are a little different, and if your clit requires focused attention or you’re seeking multiple orgasms, this clitoral pinpoint vibrator may be the oral sex toy for you. A narrow, soft, bendable vibrating tip moves in an elliptical motion to bring you super targeted clitoral pleasure just like the real thing. This latest model provides 12 pleasure modes, from gentle to “oh wow” so you can bring yourself to ultimate satisfaction.
This area is extremely sensitive and a prime spot to invest a little more attention, but the previous Tenuto’s solution was … less than ideal. The Tenuto Mini is most similar to a vibrating cock ring, the kind that wraps around the base of a penis and has a small vibrating motor at the top and, sometimes , the bottom. But while those devices are a dime a dozen and typically flimsy, the Tenuto Mini is rigid, with a small gap at the bottom. A few years ago, I tried out MysteryVibe’s unique Tenuto vibrator and found it somewhat wanting. Creating a vibrator that helps its user maintain an erection, stimulates neglected parts of the body, and is mutually beneficial for both the user and their partner was a noble goal, but one the company struggled to achieve.
The look, feel and sound of the dual vibrator was a big hit among our testers, who found it both discreet and attractive. Most importantly though, it provided a more intense orgasm for all testers. Our mission at SheKnows is to empower and inspire women, and we only feature products we think you’ll love as much as we do. Womanizer and Good Vibes are SheKnows sponsors, however, all products in this article were independently selected by our editors.